Swinger Party and Swinger Party FAQ's

A swinger party is where a number of swinger male-female couples meet to swap partners. (Gangbangs and bukkake swinger parties are different in nature.) This may be as a group of swinger friends, on a commercial basis, or organised through the internet. There is enormous diversity in the format, swinger etiquette, and expectations at swinger parties; all swinger parties are different, so it can be difficult to make comparisons between all the swinger parties. At Sensual Swingers .Com you can know some types of swinger parties and can try this with your swinger friends.

The more normal in swinger parties can be:
1- Male-male sex may be frowned upon at some Swinger Parties, while it is accepted at more enlightened venues.
2- Some swinger parties are held in private houses, some move to a different location each time, and others swinger parties are held in dedicated premises.
3- Erotic dress is often required after a certain time, or there may be no particular dress requirements.
4- The Swinger Parties have a definite cut-off time, while others go until after daybreak.

Because of this diversityin the swinger life style, is difficult to make overall comments. However, almost all swinger parties have the following in common:
1- NO means no, and you ask before you have a swinger play.
2- safe sex is required between Swingers
3- If one partner in a couple leaves the swinger party, then the other partner goes with them.
4- Bookings are essentialbefore the swinger party. You may be given a telephone number to call on the day of the swinger party to get the location.

Swingers Ethics

1. Never attempt to break up a marriage.
2. Always keep dates unless you give ample notice of changing circumstances.
3. Always keep the first meeting on a "no strings attached" basis, but be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreeable or to give an honest answer if something doesn't click.
4. Never, under any circumstances exert pressure on a partner to swing.
5. Restrict discussions of swinging to known swingers and interested persons seeking information.
6. Protect the anonymity of other swingers by refraining from unauthorized "name dropping."
7. Always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness and appearance.
8. Do not engage in any unlawful activity that would discredit swingers as a group.
9. Be friendly and warm with your swing partners, but understand that there is a type of emotional involvement, which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other."
10. Always show respect for the personal attitudes, feelings and "hang-ups" of other swingers.

Some swingers FAQ’s

Who gets invited to swinger party?

Invitations to swinger parties at clubs usually extend to couples, unaccompanied females and select unaccompanied males in the swinger life style. All of which are members of the club. Those who attend swinger house party are by invitation only. The host themselves chooses who they wish to invite to their home for a house party.

What people will I met at swinger party ?

Some swinger couples and singles from all different background, race and religions will attend swinger party. Age range will also differ from swinger party to party. Most will range from mid 20’s to mid 50’s.

What is the different between swinger parties at clubs and those held at a house?

Here are the principal differences between swinger parties at clubs and house:

• Swinger parties at clubs require members
• For entries at club's parties an entry fee os required.
• Swinger Parties at clubs can either be on-premises (sexual activities between swinger members are permitted on the premises) or off-premises (sexual activities not permitted on premises).
• There are lots more swinger couples and single swingers to chose from at club’s party
• Swinger house party can only be attending via invitation.
• House Swinger parties are more discreet and private.

Is it hard for my partner and me to organize a swinger house party?

It is absolutely not hard to organize your very own swinger house party. See our page for tips on how to organize swinger house party and you will see how easy it is.

If my partner and I are invited to swinger house party, do I need to take anything to the party?

Usually at swinger house party you and partner need not require to take anything other then yourselves and some toiletries for your personal use. Some host may ask you to BYOB (bring your own bottle) of alcohol and drinks for your own consumption and a plate of finger food for everyone to share. If the host requires you to bring anything it would be written on the invitation.

6. Do my partner and I have to follow any rules when attending swinger party?

Rules are only formed and to be followed by everyone so that the swinger party can go smoothly so those attending can enjoy themselves and have lots of funs. See our page about how to be a good swinger house party etiquette and make sure that you are invited to the next one.

Do I need to dress up to attend swinger party?

Everyone should dress up for swinger party. What we mean by dressing up is, if the swinger party has a theme dress up for it and be part of the fun.

8. Do I have to worry about unsafe sex?

There is nothing to worry about unsafe sex in the swinging lifestyle especially when attending swinger party. Many swingers are responsible people who practice safe sex with the use of condoms and with regard body check for AIDS and common STD's.
Swinger Clubs who are on-premises will provides condoms for the use by its' members. The same will also apply at house swinger parties. If you have a special favorite in regards to brand then you are more then welcome to bring your own.
If at anytime a person refuse to practice safe sex, don't feel rude to say "no" to any sexual contact as you have the right to protect yourself and others.

If I don’t want to participate in any activities at the swinger party, can I watch?

You have every right not to participate in any activities, especially sexual activities between swinger if you do not wish to. At anytime where you don't want to participate just say "no thank you, but thank you for asking".
If you prefer to watch (voyeurism) others engaged in sexual activities it is just polite to ask for permission first, but in most cases they are more them happy to show off in front of you (exhibitionism).

Are there any specific times that my partner and I have to leave by at swinger party?

It is only well-mannered to arrive and leave the swinger party together unless prior arrangement have been made beforehand with the club or the host of the swinger party. There are no specific times to leave a swinger party, but often when others start leaving it is time to wound down and leave too.
Some swinger clubs will have rooms available for guest to stay overnight, but prior arrangement must be made. For swinger house party, some host will offer swinger couples to stay overnight, this too need prior arrangement.

Can we take swinger photos or take swinger videos at swinger party?

The use of cameras, video equipments and mobile phone with in-built cameras are prohibited from all swinger clubs. Unless prior arrangements are made photos can be taken at some private swinger parties, but only with consent of the swingers you are taking.
If in doubt, ask before you take at video or photo equipments with you to swinger parties.