Jealousy in Swinging

The problem of jealousy should be dealt with before a couple becomes involved in the swinging world. Open communication
about each partner's feelings is important. You should talk about what is and what is not acceptable to each other.

For example, K(she) and J(he) were an unusually attractive couple but K was very insecure. She enjoyed swinging with both men and women but insisted that J be in the same room with her when he was having sex. K was afraid that J would fall in love with one of his swinging partners. As long as J agreed to go along with her wishes, they remained a very popular couple and K's jealousy was kept under control.

Most people never experience their fantasies or even discuss them with their partners for fear of being laughed at or being criticized. When each partner gets to live out his or her fantasy, this cuts down the feelings of jealousy considerably.

Another case. A husband's fantasy was to go into a bar with his wife and have her pick out a man she found appealing. He would then
approach the man and invite him to have a drink with them.She would come on to the man and the husband would ask him if he would like to have sex with his wife.

They would then get into the car. The husband would drive and the wife and the man would
have sex in the back seat. This worked out very well for both of them. And for the stranger as the woman is a very attractive and well-built woman!

Consequently, what is acceptable to one person or couple might be disastrous to others. Talk about your fantasies and when you find one or more that turns on each one of you, go for it!